Is Coaching right for me?
If you answer yes to any of the questions below then coaching will help you.
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You feel frustrated, aggravated, annoyed, or angry about your stepfamily, and don’t have
appropriate outlets to deal with these negative feelings. |
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You feel insecure about your place in the stepfamily. You feel like an outsider in your own
home despite concerted attempts to bond with your stepchildren. |
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You are constantly tired, and don’t have enough time to take care of yourself. |
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You are unable to talk to your partner about his children without having a fight. |
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You avoid discussing certain topics with your partner’s parents, children, or ex-wife
because you don’t want to look bad in front of them. |
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You don’t have input into decisions about how money is spent in your stepfamily;
your feelings and attitudes about money are not considered by your partner. |
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You have issues with the custodial arrangements for your stepchildren, and do not
have any input about their schedules. |
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You are not allowed to discipline your stepchildren, and are expected to tolerate misbehavior. |
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You feel that you take care of the needs of your stepchildren more than your partner or his ex-wife. |
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You don’t feel you receive the love, respect, and attention you deserve; your needs are rarely considered. |
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You sometimes wonder if you made a terrible mistake getting involved with, or married to, your partner. |
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You feel trapped in your current circumstances. |
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